Making the World Safe
for Pastry
The story of Valerie Peckler
Esther, eponymous heroine of the Purim story, is as human as they come. She
faces a struggle many Jews today face. How out do we want to be vis a vis our
Judaism? Do we speak up when a co-worker tells a Jew joke or do we stay quiet
so as not to make waves? Do we take opportunities to educate people about Judaism
or let the opportunities pass?
When the kids were young we would make up a huge shlach manot basket to put
in the teachers' lounge. After a few years, the teachers would start asking
me in February when the basket of those really good apricot, prune, and poppy
seed cookies were coming. We weren't teaching religion, we were simply sharing
something we loved about our Jewish life. This was a great way to do something
nice for my kids' teachers and teach them something about their students' heritage.
One year I got a call from one of my kids' teachers who is Jewish. She had shared
part of the Purim basket with her class and a student's mother became incensed
when she heard about it. The mother was enraged that Mrs. L. was teaching religion
in the school...

Debra Darvick © 2003